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if you want to change it, venting about it and ruminating about it will just make it harder

no it won’t?

i'm new to the concept of tulpas outright

so just put it in the past and start over if you want a different experience

venting is important to get past it

what

berockly (TTG)

Yep

And your answer?

KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk

so just put it in the past and start over if you want a different experience

just put it in the past??

Gosh, i sound like a child

berockly (TTG)

And your answer?

i mean it’s quite basic lol

i can't start over, she's already here

9:00 PM

and she keeps trying to hurt me

KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk

i mean it’s quite basic lol

Does it need to be complex?

people change and she can too

who told you you can’t start over?

Just need your thoughts on it

no one

them why are you blocking yourself lol

i'm not?? i'm trying super hard??

KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk

them why are you blocking yourself lol

how can u control a tulpa though?

9:01 PM

isn’t it it’s own being or

9:01 PM

wait nvm

9:01 PM

its ur mind

Deleted User

i'm not?? i'm trying super hard??

yeah i thought so

Put them in a time out corner

leo wouldn’t just willingly let that happen

berockly (TTG)

Put them in a time out corner

doesn't work

idk why you’re treating it like it’s their fault

Deleted User

i'm not?? i'm trying super hard??

If you're trying your best and she doesn't stop hurting you, you need to go to a therapist

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A symbolic one

9:02 PM

Ive read symbolism helps

9:02 PM

(Or a headspace one)

9:02 PM

More lag

I know that tulpamancy isn't supposed to be harmful I wouldn't dig too much into the source/cause of it, that's something to unpack with a therapist so you don't get hurt

Kei Wendt

If you're trying your best and she doesn't stop hurting you, you need to go to a therapist

okay

therapy sounds like the safest option, but dont let yourself fall into thinking that the situation cant get better without therapy

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the fucking doctors keep cancelling my psychiatry appointments though every time i get one set

9:04 PM

and i hate that sm

but that doesnt mean you shouldnt get therapy, because you should

9:05 PM

oh you already are going to someone, thats good

Deleted User

the fucking doctors keep cancelling my psychiatry appointments though every time i get one set

If you can get ahold of a doctor at all that would be good but i understand it can be difficult Keep trying though

aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae

oh you already are going to someone, thats good

no the doctors keep stopping me from getting my first psychiatry appointment

9:06 PM

keep trying

will do

Go to a different one

9:06 PM

That doesnt fuck you over

aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae

therapy sounds like the safest option, but dont let yourself fall into thinking that the situation cant get better without therapy

and remember this

Yeah if you can try other options that might be faster

berockly (TTG)

That doesnt fuck you over

fr

idk how to even find one, i just keep going to the actual doctor for checkups and i go "yo there are people in my head and i have no idea what's happening and one of them keeps hurting me"

9:07 PM

they go "okay we'll give you a psychiatry appointment, it's all set now"

9:07 PM

and then they cancel it AFTER i leave the building

9:08 PM

do they think i'm going through a phase or something?? i don't understand why they'd do that

i mean that sounds like a typical pretends-to-be-crazy story but its pretty f'd up for that to happen several times

9:10 PM

im not saying you're pretending, just that they might think that way

Idk, my psychiatrist and doctor didn't think i was pretending when i mentioned it They should never assume that

exactly

Deleted User

i'm not?? i'm trying super hard??

that masochism/despair cult of yours explains a lot vents won’t help you (edited)

9:12 PM

also, because masochism/despair cult is part of your past, i don’t think any help you would receive here would help you get better because, well, do you even want to get better?

im sure they do

KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk

also, because masochism/despair cult is part of your past, i don’t think any help you would receive here would help you get better because, well, do you even want to get better?

i do want to get better, that's a rude thing to say without prompting

KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk

also, because masochism/despair cult is part of your past, i don’t think any help you would receive here would help you get better because, well, do you even want to get better?

It was in their past, i'm sure they want to get better now

that's actually unbelievably rude

i didn’t say it, i asked it

9:13 PM

It’s rude to twist what someone else is saying

i'll give up on the argument before it even begins

KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk

It’s rude to twist what someone else is saying

Tbf it did come off as a sudden question but i think it was just a misunderstanding

KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk

that masochism/despair cult of yours explains a lot vents won’t help you (edited)

she claims she came in to fill the void of despair that the original leader had and started doing basically the same stuff

9:15 PM

but like she hasn't left along with me leaving that mindset (edited)

Thought you were going to give up on the argument

i have

9:15 PM

i'm not arguing with you

9:16 PM

i'm ignoring your accusation and rude question and talking about something else

Then why are you dragging me into this by putting words in my mouth? That’s incredibly rude (edited)

stop

aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae

stop

man i tried to

9:17 PM

am i going nuts?? i swear i stopped

i meant kitkat

ah okay

KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk

Then why are you dragging me into this by putting words in my mouth? That’s incredibly rude (edited)

“do you even want to get better” is even ruder

9:20 PM

can u not see how hard they’re trying?

so you guys want to drag this?

no?

dkhdjdbr

“do you even want to get better” is even ruder

thank you for defending me but we need to drop this

i’m just saying

Deleted User

thank you for defending me but we need to drop this

alright

we need to drop this

someone asking you if you want to get better in the context of previously being in a masochism/despair cult is completely reasonable. You've said you didn't want to vent but venting is all you're doing. You've already been told this isn't a problem to fix with tulpamancy, and you should seek medical assistance. Please everyone stop feeding into this behaviour in tulpa-questions (edited)

alright

9:21 PM

i just read it wrong then

wait i've been venting?

9:21 PM

OH

9:21 PM

yeah uh

no? i don’t think so

yeah you're right

9:21 PM

sorry

9:21 PM

yeah i didn't even realize what i was doing

apologies accepted